Why You’re Still Stuck: The Paradox of Effort in Healing

Why You’re Still Stuck: The Paradox of Effort in Healing

Let’s be honest—kindly honest, not beat-yourself-up honest. If you’ve struggled for years, you’ve probably tried just about everything. The self-help books are stacked like a motivational Jenga tower. You’ve done therapy. You’ve...
Playing Sports Is Not Fun Anymore…What Happened?

Playing Sports Is Not Fun Anymore…What Happened?

A 17-year-old client recently said to me, “Playing sports isn’t fun anymore. I’m not sure it’s worth it.” Sadly, this isn’t the first time I’ve heard that this year. Many middle and high school athletes continue to show up for...