Control or Dictate: You Choose.

Control or Dictate: You Choose.

I think it’s fair to say that many of us have had experiences working with others where leadership skills were lacking. Perhaps you’ve had a manager, coach, or friend handle you like you were a ‘subject’ to be told what to do. Or perhaps worse...
One Strategy To Change the Quality of Your Life

One Strategy To Change the Quality of Your Life

I must admit that my to-do list inevitably grows more extensive than the hours of my day. I see that a meaningful, active life perhaps pulls for that. I also see others who share incomplete lists at the end of the day. In a busy world, this is quite common. Stressed...
How To Feel Bad When Working Hard: Taking Things Personally

How To Feel Bad When Working Hard: Taking Things Personally

In this series of mistakes that fail your family, I am highlighting common strategies that undermine your children’s success and happiness. We have covered several behavioral strategies recently, but today’s discussion focuses on a critical mental mistake:...
You Can’t Get There From Here!

You Can’t Get There From Here!

I once heard this phrase long ago, and it has stuck with me over the years. Many clients have asked me to clarify my meaning when I boldly pronounce: “I’m sorry. You just can’t get there from here.” Our Silent Superpower! Most of our struggles...
The Outside Game Part II: Discipline

The Outside Game Part II: Discipline

We all understand the role of discipline in creating a successful journey through life. Yet, many parents struggle with teaching discipline to their kids. In part two of this series, I will discuss the role of parental discipline in forming the glue that binds the...
Will My Insurance Cover Neurofeedback? Explained By Licensed Psychologist Dr. Randy Cale

Will My Insurance Cover Neurofeedback? Explained By Licensed Psychologist Dr. Randy Cale

Will my insurance cover Neurofeedback? Unfortunately, the answer is typically no. Your insurance will not cover Neurofeedback or biofeedback. The reason is that many insurances do not understand Neurofeedback, and despite my attempts to educate them, their medical...